Saturday, April 18, 2009

how to impress a girl and boy

how to impress a boy
Step1
Be yourself around the boy you're trying to impress. This may sound like unhelpful advice, but the worst thing you can ever do is pretend to be something you're not. People will see right through you. So lighten up, enjoy yourself and have fun. Remember to laugh.
Step2
Find out what his interests are. This doesn't mean you need to pretend to be interested in the same things (unless you actually are), but it will give you a way to start conversations with him. Maybe you can even poke fun at him about something you learn; playful teasing is flirty and fun.
Step3
Dress appropriately. Often girls think the best way to lure a boy is by showing way too much skin, but dressing scantily could backfire. You never want to be (or seem) desperate for attention, and wearing inappropriate, or too little, clothing is a sure fire way to get the wrong kind of looks. Wear cute, age-appropriate clothing that leaves something to the imagination.
Step4
Lend an ear to him. Everyone needs a good listener in his life. If you like this boy, you don't want to nervously talk his ear off. Listen to him and be a good friend. Being relaxed and fun is intriguing, and if you're confident that you're fun to be around, the boy you want to impress will feel that. It won't take long for him to go from "boy to impress" to "definitely impressed."

how to impress a girl

Step1
What makes you different makes you impressive. What makes you different makes you impressive. Examine your hobbies. Maybe you do something like play Dungeons and Dragons, which won't impress a lot of girls, but maybe you organize meet ups all the time and can relate with everyone you speak with. Maybe you can make it interesting to the disbelievers. Do you play a sport? Reading could be your thing? Maybe you keep a blog that draws interested viewers constantly? Inside the ordinary everything (and those are just random examples) you can find something extraordinary and unique to you. Unique is key, because to impress a girl you should be unique.
Step2
Talk with her personally about things you have done. Talk with her personally about things you have done. Inside your hobbies and elsewhere, think about your accomplishments, big and small. Something is bound to be interesting and impressive to a girl. Just remember when talking to her not to simply toss out ideas and boast. Find something personal and easy to relate to about your accomplishment and share an experience with her.
Step3
Listening to her will defnitely impress a girl. Listening to her will defnitely impress a girl. Impress a girl by being interested in what she has to say. Ask about her hobbies and accomplishments. Get to know her. A girl is always impressed by genuine interest. You will also find things you both care about in talking and impress each other.

Boys want to impress girls all the time. Ever since man and woman were created, men have always tried to impress, woo and court woman. Impressing a girl is mandatory before a boy attempts to court the girl. There are numerous methods of impressing girls, namely looks, behavior and social and financial status. However, there are a few general rules in attempting to impress girls. Let us look at the first factor, which is that of your looks. How you present yourself to the girl matters as the first impression lasts very long in ones memory. Groom yourself first, ensure cleanliness and tidiness in your body hygiene and in the clothes you wear. No girl wants to date a guy who looks like he has escaped from the town zoo.

The next thing that strikes a girl is your demeanor, your confidence level and your general behavior. You should try to be polite and gentle in your conversations with the girl, being assertive to indicate your confidence and at the same time refrain from being aggressive which is sure to scare the girl. Your positive attitude will send positive vibes to the girl, which will surely be reciprocated. Show genuine interest in her, not just her looks but also in all other aspects of her. Be a good listener and when you talk, lace it with some humor, as this will show her that you are an interesting and exciting person to hangout with all the time.

Shower lavish compliments on her from time to time without being critical. Point out her positives more than her negative points. This will make a girl realize that you are so interested in her that you even overlook negative things about her, things of which she herself will be well aware. Be a romantic and surprise her with gifts on her anniversaries or important dates indicating that you attach equal importance to her important events in her life as much as she does herself. All girls like a successful person as a soul mate or partner but this does not mean that girls are interested only in rich boys. Exude confidence and self respect whatever your social standing is and this will definitely make her realize that you are someone who holds a lot of promise for the future if not now. So we can summarize that a well-groomed person with confidence and a positive attitude coupled with an ability to hold intelligent conversations laced with humor and wit will definitely impress almost all the girls.


How to Impress a Girl and Make Her Fall in Love with a Boy


Most guys want to impress a girl so she will like him, but most of those guys come about it all wrong, and instead of impressing her, he turns her off. Find out how to turn heads-in your direction.
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[edit] Steps

1. Now the first step is the most simple-play a sport. I don't care what you play, even rugby and golf. As long as girls know that you play a sport and don't sit all day in your dark room playing final fantasy, dungeons and dragons, and world of warcraft. Carry a football, basketball, or baseball glove around school a couple times out of the week. Also, if you're not exactly the sports type, try considering learning to play an instrument. Girls love a guy who can play guitar or piano. You don't know how much this attracts a girl. I mean, a girl would rather have a smart, fat, baseball player than a smart, fat world of warcraft geek.
2. Now, find out if she is single. It really sucks to do all of these steps for a girl who already has a boyfriend that she loves.
3. Too many guys make the mistake of thinking that if you can burp for more than twenty seconds, than a girl will fall in love with him. Impress her with your brains, act smarter and more mature than those other idiots. But don't come off as a geek or nerd.
4. Act charming. Have witty conversations with the girl.
5. Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and tv shows. Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections. Get a general knowledge of what is going on in today's teen world so you will have a lot to talk about.
6. Make friends with everyone. Be the guy who everyone sits around and listens to. Be the all around guy. Be able to talk to the goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone else. She will feel way more comfortable around you knowing that you are cool with everyone you know, instead of being the geek in the back of the classroom who has no friends.
7. Find out what you both have in common, and make sure that she knows that you two have the same likes and dislikes.
8. Make her feel really comfortable around you. Make sure that she knows that she is able to come to you with any problems that she might be having in her life. Also, make sure that she knows that not only can you listen to her problems, but you can also solve her problems, or maybe at least just come up with ideas to help her solve them. Be warned, however. Offering advice is one thing, but girls don't talk about their problems to someone because they want that person to try and solve them all. They want someone who will listen, first and foremost.
9. Now here's the big step. Ask her out to a movie, or to lunch. If she feels the same way that you feel about her, then she will most likely say yes.


Tips

* Compliment her sometimes on something that she doesn't think that you will notice. When she is wearing something a little more special than normal, comment to her that she is looking especially nice. She probably put it on to be noticed, so she'll love the compliment. Even if you don't know anything about fashion, you'll know when she is wearing something nice is she smiles and blushes when you look at her. Just don't go overboard with the compliments. It will just look creepy. Maybe you should just say a compliment once a week, maybe twice a week, tops.
* Be yourself. Don't try to fake a personality. She will most likely notice, and if the girl you like doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not worth your time. Don't ever change your personality for another person. You are who you are, and if people don't like it, they will just have to deal with it. You are you, and nobody can, or should change that.

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